this little port: thank you and an update

Monday, March 25, 2013

My grandmother died today. When I wrote my post last night, I said that her cancer was progressing fast, but I don't think any of us realized how fast. I woke up to the news, and I ~~was~~ am so shocked at the suddenness of it all. I was praying that she would get to meet her great grandbaby, via skype at the very least. I am grateful though that she passed very peacefully surrounded by her husband, children and grandchildren. And I'm glad that my mom flies to Bogota tomorrow, where she will at least have the comfort of her family.

Today I thought about my grandmother, her deep love for her family, her practicality and her ability to make absolutely anything. She crafted every piece of clothing that her 5 children wore, and that includes socks and underwear. Having inherited her crafty gene, I decided to spend my day sewing. I made two dolls (will be blogged on Thursday) and it was exactly what I needed.

Finally, I just wanted to say thank you for all of your sweet comments on my post yesterday. I got to read them after I heard of her passing, and they made me feel so comforted and loved. So thank you xo

32 comments:

Selene Over the PondMarch 25, 2013 at 8:28 PM
so sad...

so sorry.

Imogen EveMarch 25, 2013 at 8:33 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your Abuela. Sending my condolences to you and your family.
JayMarch 25, 2013 at 8:50 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss Gaby.

I've had a couple of close family members pass away from quickly progressing cancer while I've been abroad. It's certainly difficult to be away from family at these times and there's an aspect that feels so unbelievable when we aren't witnessing things first hand. I still struggle when I go home as I expect them to be there - I suppose it's because I didn't get to say goodbye.

My thoughts are with you and your family as you grieve.
Elisa {With Grace and Eve}March 25, 2013 at 8:50 PM
So sorry for your loss Gaby x
dear oliveMarch 25, 2013 at 9:21 PM
Oh, Gaby, that is terrible news, I'm so sorry. It must be terribly hard to be on the this side of the world right now. Kellie xx
Steph @ this brown wrenMarch 25, 2013 at 11:40 PM
Lovely Gaby I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved abuela. May your Mumma find comfort in those around her. Your sewing tribute is beautiful. May you find peace in small acts such as these. Wishing you gentle days x
Lauren {everyday ATLAS}March 25, 2013 at 11:44 PM
I can't really imagine. My thoughts are with you girl.
UnknownMarch 26, 2013 at 12:17 AM
it's so hard to lose your grandma, i'm so sorry gaby. i don't know if you believe in heaven but i believe your grandma and your little baby will be hanging out together and getting to know each other really well before your babe makes their way into the world! :) lots of love and prayers. xoxo
kristynMarch 26, 2013 at 12:40 AM
Gaby, i'm so sorry to hear about your loss. it's so hard losing loved ones, but the tender and wonderful memories you have of her will stay with you forever. i hope you are able to find some comfort this week as you mourn her passing. thoughts and prayers with you always, dear.

xo,
kristyn
k8teMarch 26, 2013 at 1:15 AM
oh i'm so sorry to hear this. thinking of you and your family at this sad time!
KariMarch 26, 2013 at 2:03 AM
So sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts.
Gillian RoeMarch 26, 2013 at 3:08 AM
Gaby I'm so sorry. I thought the people I loved would just go on forever and ever and it's always a horrible shock when they don't. Take comfort from her peaceful death, if you can.

Sending you very warmest wishes and a big hug. xx
Megan JoyMarch 26, 2013 at 3:32 AM
This made me cry, Gaby. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending positive thoughts and love your way!
KristaMarch 26, 2013 at 5:13 AM
So sorry to hear that. It always such a difficult thing to go through and I know from personal experience that the distance can make it feel excruciating at times. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carissa ClarkMarch 26, 2013 at 5:30 AM
Gaby, I am so sorry. It's so hard and heartbreaking to lose someone you love.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
UnknownMarch 26, 2013 at 11:14 AM
Love & light, dear Gaby. On the anniversary-eve of my own abuelo's passing, my heart breaks for you, & your family. We are thinking of you. Gentle days.

S&S xx

JessMarch 26, 2013 at 12:25 PM
So sorry to hear about your grandmother. It is lovely to hear that you two shared such a special bond and that you passed the day in a way that felt special in her memory.

Laura DarlingMarch 26, 2013 at 12:55 PM
I am so sorry for your loss Gaby!
Ms GeorgeMarch 26, 2013 at 2:24 PM
What a shock for you. It must be a comfort to know she went peacefully and surrounded by love- what most people would wish for I'm sure. Sounds like you spent the day perfectly honouring her memory. It must be very hard to be on the other side of the world when your family can gather together.

You know, I see a lot of you in your Grandmother's face in this picture. The shape perhaps? Take care of yourself.

George
RACHAELMarch 26, 2013 at 2:55 PM
Oh Gaby, I'm so sorry. It is the strangest (most heartbreaking) feeling in the world to lose someone so close to you. I'm thinking of you and your family x
Lindsay @ Trial By SapphireMarch 27, 2013 at 7:26 AM
Sending love to you from Houston, Gaby!
shayla.March 27, 2013 at 11:24 AM
so sorry to hear this! that's a lovely photo and she seems like a lovely lady :)
saraMarch 27, 2013 at 11:31 AM
i'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother...
sending love...
xx
KathrynMarch 27, 2013 at 3:02 PM
that's heartbreaking to hear, Gaby, I'm so sorry.
I lost my grandfather a year ago, so I remember the pain.
trishieMarch 27, 2013 at 5:24 PM
My deepest condolences for your loss, Gaby. Take care.

I hope your dislocated toe is getting better too.
beccaMarch 28, 2013 at 4:01 AM
Gaby, I am so sorry for your loss.
UnknownMarch 28, 2013 at 10:31 PM
Gaby, I am so sorry. I lost my grandmother to cancer last year. I know that pain and am so sorry that you are having to go through this. Spending your day honoring her with sewing is beautiful. She will always be with you. xo
JuliaMarch 29, 2013 at 4:25 AM
Oh, sweetheart! I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm so sorry she couldn't have met your baby. I'm positive that she will be there, with you!
Tara @ Beautiful BlendingsApril 2, 2013 at 6:21 AM
Oh this just crushes my heart to hear.
Your baby will know your grandmother and will take on her spirit.... cause that's just what I like to believe in.
Know that there is much love around you. xx
Kristi April 4, 2013 at 7:46 PM
hugs. x
UnknownApril 5, 2013 at 10:31 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am sending you some hugs and strength.
It's so lovely to hear about how your grandmother has inspired you.
xx
KristinaApril 8, 2013 at 9:27 AM
sending you hugs. so sorry for your loss. x